How often do you hear the phrase, "Divorce is so hard on kids." And while the separation itself is certainly challenging, I’ve come to understand that the real struggle isn't your family structure, it's your family dynamic, meaning, it's the conflict between parents.
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Why Every Coparent Needs a Coparenting App (And Why We Recommend OurFamilyWizard)
Feb 26, 2025
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Co-parenting can be complicated. Between scheduling, expenses, and communication, even the best co-parenting relationships can feel overwhelming at times. That’s where co-parenting apps come in.
Instead of sifting through endless texts, emails, and voicemails, a co-parenting app keeps everything in...
Feb 18, 2025
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10 Phrases to End Co-Parent Conflict (Before It Escalates!)
Co-parenting can be tough, especially when emotions run high. Disagreements happen, but how you respond can make all the difference. The right words can de-escalate tension, keep the focus on your child, and prevent unnecessary conflict.
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Perfection Doesn't Exist
Jan 27, 2025
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There’s No Such Thing as Perfect—Only Growth
Over the years, I’ve heard countless clients share a familiar sentiment: “I’ve failed.”
They tell me they’ve failed as a spouse, as a parent, or simply as a person. But here’s the truth I always remind them of: there’s no such thing as perfect.
Not a per...
Big Bedtime Feelings
Jan 01, 2025
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It’s not uncommon for kids to seem perfectly fine all day and then be overwhelmed with sadness at bedtime. If your child suddenly misses a parent at night or becomes distressed, know that it’s completely normal.
During the day, kids are often busy and distracted, which can make them appear unaffect...
A little holiday hope
Dec 20, 2024
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**Finding Light This Holiday Season**
The holiday season has a way of sneaking up on us, doesn’t it? For some, it’s a time of joy, reflection, and gathering with loved ones. For others—especially those navigating major life changes—it can feel bittersweet or even overwhelming.
If you’re feeling un...
Can we talk about forgiveness?
Sep 19, 2024
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Divorce or separation makes forgiveness tricky, am I right? Letting go of anger and resentment toward your ex, is no easy task. Forgiveness needs deep thought and a desire to grow as a person.
Research shows forgiveness has big upsides for mental and physical health. It makes you feel better and mo...
Self Care Tips for Healing Post Divorce
Jul 09, 2024
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Divorce is a profound transition. It's like navigating a storm, where the waves of change crash against you, making it hard to find solid ground. When you've shared your life with someone, and that partnership ends, you're not just adjusting to a new routine. You're reimagining your future. This jou...
Divorce Bully
Jun 21, 2024
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Divorce, without a doubt, is a journey filled with emotional challenges and draining experiences. It becomes even more trying when one party resorts to bullying tactics to gain control and intimidate the other. If you find yourself in this situation, I want you to know that there's a way to handle i...
Coparenting During The Holidays
Jun 21, 2024
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Plan Ahead
Make a holiday co-parenting plan. In all likelihood, your custody agreement has one, but as kids grow older, and situations change, things may need to change. If you already have a plan, review it, consider any extenuating/changing circumstances (new relationships, illness, corona, etc)a...