How often do you hear the phrase, "Divorce is so hard on kids." And while the separation itself is certainly challenging, I’ve come to understand that the real struggle isn't your family structure, it's your family dynamic, meaning, it's the conflict between parents.
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Invisible scripts
Mar 19, 2025
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The Invisible Scripts Holding You Back from a Peaceful Co-Parenting Relationship
I recently discovered something powerful called Invisible Scripts—deeply ingrained beliefs that quietly shape our behavior without us even realizing it. These scripts influence the way we think, react, and engage in re...
Is Your Coparent a Narcissist?
Mar 05, 2025
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Is Your Co-Parent Really a Narcissist? Here’s What You Need to Know
Let me tell you how nearly half of my client inquiries begin:
An exhausted, frustrated parent tells me, "I know everyone says this, but my co-parent really is a Narcissist."
Nearly half again start with an exhausted, frustrated p...
Why Every Coparent Needs a Coparenting App (And Why We Recommend OurFamilyWizard)
Feb 26, 2025
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Co-parenting can be complicated. Between scheduling, expenses, and communication, even the best co-parenting relationships can feel overwhelming at times. That’s where co-parenting apps come in.
Instead of sifting through endless texts, emails, and voicemails, a co-parenting app keeps everything in...
Feb 18, 2025
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10 Phrases to End Co-Parent Conflict (Before It Escalates!)
Co-parenting can be tough, especially when emotions run high. Disagreements happen, but how you respond can make all the difference. The right words can de-escalate tension, keep the focus on your child, and prevent unnecessary conflict.
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Perfection Doesn't Exist
Jan 27, 2025
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There’s No Such Thing as Perfect—Only Growth
Over the years, I’ve heard countless clients share a familiar sentiment: “I’ve failed.”
They tell me they’ve failed as a spouse, as a parent, or simply as a person. But here’s the truth I always remind them of: there’s no such thing as perfect.
Not a per...
Big Bedtime Feelings
Jan 01, 2025
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It’s not uncommon for kids to seem perfectly fine all day and then be overwhelmed with sadness at bedtime. If your child suddenly misses a parent at night or becomes distressed, know that it’s completely normal.
During the day, kids are often busy and distracted, which can make them appear unaffect...
A little holiday hope
Dec 20, 2024
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**Finding Light This Holiday Season**
The holiday season has a way of sneaking up on us, doesn’t it? For some, it’s a time of joy, reflection, and gathering with loved ones. For others—especially those navigating major life changes—it can feel bittersweet or even overwhelming.
If you’re feeling un...
Can we talk about forgiveness?
Sep 19, 2024
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Divorce or separation makes forgiveness tricky, am I right? Letting go of anger and resentment toward your ex, is no easy task. Forgiveness needs deep thought and a desire to grow as a person.
Research shows forgiveness has big upsides for mental and physical health. It makes you feel better and mo...